Do's and Don'ts of Friends with Benefits relationship

Online dating is more normal than ever, more and more singles start using dating sites and apps to find FWB. Friends with Benefits relationship refers to a casual connection. It's a relationship in which two people bear a purely physical connection with one another with no emotional connection/cascade between them. Though we are humans and such emotions cannot be restraint. But in order to workout a no strings attached relationship, you need to follow some do's and don'ts that may serve as golden rules for working out this kind of relationship.


Emotional and Mental Preparation

Before opting for such a relationship, make sure you are emotionally and mentally prepared for not having any emotional strings holding you back. Such a relationship is just and should be a roller coaster ride of pure fun and enjoyment.

Set some ground rules

Makes sure that both the parties are safe and are enjoying the relationship. Make sure that your partner knows if you meet someone new and want to work out with them. Make sure you're comfortable with everything at every stage and talk about changes if needed at any stage.

Fun and Relaxation

Make sure to enjoy the thrill and fun of this kind of relationship with someone. You get to relax as things are kept light while avoiding the possible issues, concerns, and misunderstandings that can arise in a more serious commitments.

Health comes first

Nothing is more precious than your own health, both mental and physical, do take care of your health and safety.

Private life

Keep your private life out of your relationship for the sake of your security and safety.


No involvement with family & friends

No need to meet or get involve with the family and friends of your partner. Because once you meet their family and friends, you'll start seeing your partner as a different person which will lead to the road of emotional attachment from where the return will be difficult. So, just see them when you need to.

Don't reveal your secrets

Keep your secrets to you and no need to open to your partner as you never know what kind of person they turns out to be in future once you both take separate ways.

No outings

No need to hang out with partner of such a relationship as you are not dating and don't need to spend some relax time together to know about each other.

Careful partner selection

Choose your partner for such a relation very carefully. Don't select your friends or friends of your friends. Try to choose a person far away from your surroundings and social circle. Also don't choose random people just on the basis of good face. Choose people who agree to your arrangements and can keep up with your ground rules.

No one sided feelings

Never develop one sided feelings for such a casual relationship as it will only be a source of hurting. Cut off this relationship if you ever feel like developing any kind of emotions.

Choice of words

Never use words like feelings, love, emotions etc. that can create emotional attachment towards that person.

Follow these simple do's and don'ts to make your Friends with Benefits relationship work out smoothly without any unneeded complications.

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